Q: "I'm non-binary and bi, recently started exploring that side of things. I've really only dated men, had a few purely sexual experiences with women. As a person that was born F, how can I get out of that ""friend-zone"" with women who are seeing both my disability and bio gender before a sexual/datable partner?
This was after spending new years on a kind of date that ended with ""My great pal ... using f pronouns..."
A: That’s annoying that your “date” did that. I would say definitely move out of your friend circle to look for people to date. Online dating is great because you can be explicit about exactly what you want. Most apps allow you to select your correct gender identity now. If you want to see the person from New Years again, (and I completely get if you don’t) you could have a frank conversation with them about your pronouns and what you want from the relationship.
